Girl Help

[pikachu1800]

I posted this on GFaqs, Forums, Azure and nao here.

This is very off topic as it is only about me and sorry for posting this, but I have no where else to ask.


Please Help Me.. I have trouble speaking to girls for some reason So, I'm 15 and I'm after this girl..>.> So... I want to be with her, but the problem is that I'm too shy, everytime I go near her, I like FREAK out..

I would like some professional help, like the people who are great with girls..
I need like the exact words to say to her, if I dont I would get all messed up...

Another problem is that I see that she is hangs out with another friggin' boy.., so I want to win her heart over Is there anything to say that will maybe will raise her affection towards me?

And also, I am tooooo shy to talk to her if there is someone else there...>.<

Okay about her: she is a very pretty girl that I LIKE VERY MUCH!!! I dunno but when I look at her, it makes me happy all of a sudden, she is like no other girl that I have ever met...

I want to know her phone number so I can talk to her anytime.

Please somebody help me..

[ExpertGamrZZ]

Ok, its fine since you posted this on the correct part of the forum.

I dont really know what to do you help you out. I am not very good with girls either ._.

Maybe just say hi and get to asking her what her classes are like or something like that? I dunno. Good Luck.

[pikachu1800]

I'm asking her thi wedsday, I hope this goes out well ._.

[sum182]

Well really if you just get words from someone else to say girls don't like that cause it wouldn't be you. They want who you are and what you'd say cause they want to know the real you. Trust me, just go with what your instincts tell you. Its worked fine for me cause i'm in a relationship about 7 months last sunday and i even started out with friends with her for about a month so try for that first, do stuff with her like movies or parties or something, let her get to know you and you get to know her, then ask her out or just to go on a date or something cause if she really doesn't know you its going to be weird, unless you already know her, you wen't so specific on that. And maybe after a couple times hangin out with her you can get her #.

[pikachu1800]

Alright, I'm asking her tommorow, wish me good luck everyone ;D

[pikachu1800]

¬_¬ I guess it went "Okay"

Okay here's what happened during school...
I wait on a bench for like half an hour and liek she didn't show up, so I was leik o sht she's not here.... I was pretty pissed...

But like at break, I saw her leik in the middle of 100 ppl and I was liek I cant make my move >.>.... At lunch, I saw her eating with Alan and I wuz liek and I was also like T_T soo, I decided I had no hope >_<, but just as I thought about how I dont want to lose her, There was an annoucement the said" Report to the office Margaret Ju, Please report to the main office" and as soon as I heard it, I made a mad dash towards the office and I pulled open the doors, and then WTF? Shes not there T_T

So I made some lame excuse that I needed paper, just about when I was gonna leave, one of the ppl who worked said" Do you know a Margaret Ju" And I was leik "y..yes" then he said that I need to bring her here I was liek wondering why she hasnt showed up, and I found her very quickly and I said her name a few times but they were liek messed up, so I said one clear one, and she turned to me, and my face went all I said"umm, you... you need to come to the main office" And liek she said" Oh yeah I remember, Thank you" I wuz like " no problem she smiled at me and I smiled back, although she did not return, so I think she might have went to liek a dentist or something

Well, thats how my day went, I think it went pretty well.

[ExpertGamrZZ]

Not bad, you just cant jump into these things.

Baby steps is where its at.

[WizKid]

I have the same problems >_>

[Pikachu180]

I hate shyness.